Comments on: Letting Go of Someone You Love

By: Tim

Tim — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 14:15:03 +0000

Hi regina, it’s hard if you keep hanging on the past, what matters is what is happening now. Look at the brighter side of life, things happen for a reason. If it wasn’t meant to be before, maybe it is meant to happen now. Just be patient and let time sort out things, you don’t need to be hasty. Enjoy the moment, if it doesn’t end the way you expect it to be, maybe something better is in store for you. =)

By: regina

regina — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 18:56:03 +0000

hi, i solely agree about what you have said. but, this situation is really nagging me. I love this boy, i never told him.. he just figured it out all by himself, and confronted me that he doesn’t feel the same. He only sees me as a friend. And he likes it,like that. I tried my best to forget him, but I just can’t. We hang out on the same place, and go in the same school. He even sends text messages on me. I’m depressed, which resulted to loss of my weight. I became skinnier and more fit. A lot of boys want to date me… but, he’s not one of those. Instead, he became even nicer, and we became much much closer. I can’t help falling for him over and over again. And he’s starting to give me “weird” gestures.. like i caught him glancing at me, and other stuffs. oh,, i really do love him., it’s like, i can wait forever. but every time I recall what he said, I feel so pathetic. please help, . what shall i do? thanks and more power.

By: Tim

Tim — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 04:24:57 +0000

The person that can best give an answer to your question is yourself. You have to ask yourself is he making you happy at all. Is it worth all your sacrifice and pain? You have to reflect on it, and think deeply if this is the kind of relationship that you want to have. And the best thing that you can do besides evaluating your relationship is pray deeply to God to help you find the answer to all the questions of your heart. Being with someone and still feeling lonely might be a sign that he might not be enough, might not be the person that you will be happiest with… You have to think deeply before making a decision.

By: Tim

Tim — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 04:20:09 +0000

All of us are having difficulties, especially when we spent so much time with a particular person that we become very much attached to them. It is not easy, but withstanding through the trials is the way and the only way. The first thing is you have to accept that being with that person gives you more pain than happiness and be hopeful that someday he will find someone that will help him make a better person. You will find the person that is meant for you, in God’s time.

By: Tim

Tim — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 04:10:20 +0000

Hi MICK , Thank you so much for visiting our page. I do hope and pray that you will find the happiness you long for, I am also a victim of love but without it happening, I would have not been able to meet my soon to be wife. It may have been said too many times, but it is true that everything happens for a reason.

By: Tim

Tim — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 04:04:16 +0000

Hi JaM .. I believe that your decision was right. It was unfair of him to lead you into that relationship without you having any knowledge that he was married. Any relationship built on lies is not worth keeping at all. The basic foundation of all relationships is trust, without that, everything becomes superficial. It will hurt because you have really loved that person, but remember that it would hurt you more if you allowed that relationship to go on. It would be useless for you to build your dreams around that person, it may be true that he loved you, but you didn’t deserve to be lied to.

By: Tim

Tim — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 03:57:24 +0000

Like I’ve said, there is really no easy way to get out of this kind of heartache, but all of us are survivors. Maybe tomorrow, maybe next week, or next month, nobody really knows, but all we can do is stand through the pain and believe in ourselves that somehow, someway all of these things will eventually pass by. I know the longer it gets, the harder it becomes and it is those moments that you have to stand stronger, and have faith that whatever you are going through is just part of a grander plan, a greater love and a better life, God Bless you always.

By: Rachelle Anne dela Cruz

Rachelle Anne dela Cruz — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 10:51:32 +0000

Hi this is rachelle anne dela cruz, thank you for sharing your blog for us,the topic is Letting Go of Someone You Love. It is not accident that my mouse click you website, just because it has a purpose, right now, im experiencing the feelings of sadness, just because i expect over and over to the person i loved so much ;my first boyfriend, i was deeply in love with HIM so much, i invest so much loved with HIM, from the moment with been together up to know, i was deeply in Love with Him but time goes by i feel , that im the person who in Love with each other just because the man i love has a great responsibity to his Family, the first priority of my b.f is his family, deep inside when he said tHat i feel the feeling of sadness,. i know that he is the eldest to his family and he is the bread winner, honestly, i just wanted to end up our relationship without knowing HIm, i was felt guilty everytime to my said i need to let go of him even their is no problem with is, i just want have a space to think and reflect to my life, i know that for me its hard but if this is good f;or me, i will do…

i have a queation? i hope you could help me, it is better to continue our relationship even at times i have the feelings of loneliness without knowing Him, actually I love him but if this is the good way to feel me better. i will do that, i love Himm but io need to let go of him, in able me ‘to move on and to start again with my life together with my family.

thank you

By: shubz

shubz — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 11:10:23 +0000

Hi there.I have been in a ’serious’ relationship for 5years..we both med students in china..i have lived with him for the whole duration..during this time i basically practised being his wife,however commitment seemed an issue for him throughout the relationship..it has sadly ended now due the the fact that he couldnt keep his eyes of other women,and this had become very direspectful..he never saw signs of cheating a problem..i had become very attached to him inspite the emotional abuse..god has given me the strenght to uncover my blind fold and see this man for the devil he really is..however i dont have the courage to leave..im very afraid of seeng him with another women..please help as this man used me to such a point that im hooked to him..

By: mick

mick — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 23:33:17 +0000

tim hi just found ur page here on letting go..wow iam in it deep and when i read ur feelings iam there …the pain is and has ben tearing me apart 4 3 1/2 yrs now back and forth with what i thought was my soulmate,,, although she had other plans..and i wasnt 1 of them,,ive ben praying ive moved 1500 miles away and came back for work and her reasons, but to no avail here iam again ALONE HURTING NAKED LOST STRESSED AND MOST OF ALL STILL IN LOVE WITH HER… she chaeted i caught her i built her a home and gave everything still wasnt enuff..iam here to say im workin day in and day out praying and pushing to get to the other side,,i thank you for ur thoughts and hope for others as i will somehow get out of this forest im in naked alone and feeling like everyone is watching me living enjoying and laughing at me for being such a sucker and fool for her,,,my heart is blind moreso than i but iam pushing i hope someday in the future i can come back here and say IT ALL WORKED OUT AND IM HAPPIER THAN EVER..well see,,,thanx mick