How To Tell If He/She Really Likes You
By all luck we were not given the power to actually read other people’s mind, something that we could really use in times of wondering if the person we are attracted to likes us. It is probably something that has been searched most on the internet, “How to know if he or she likes me”. Not an easy task, since this isn’t a science with a corresponding Force= Mass times Acceleration formula.
True, there are signs that they may do to show us they do like us, but they are relative. For us smiling is a show of interest, but to some it’s as good as nothing.
Never act as if you are the Einstein of knowing who likes who, because to tell you honestly, you will end up looking stupid faster than the falling apple of Newton’s experiment. If it was easy as 1,2,3 then all of us would have ended up with a perfect record, no misinterpretations, no rejections. So the problem is how do we know? How would we know?
The answer is??? Pay attention to detail, whatever he does or she does will always tell a part of him/her. A single act will not entirely answer your question, but a series of actions will do. We end up stipulating too much, over-thinking, trying to interpret a single act or two, it’s like finding a needle in a haystack. Come on, we are better than that, human beings are supposed to be the smartest, how can we say that we can tell how a person feels towards us that most of the times we don’t even know if we ourselves like a particular person even through a series of dates. Yes, everything takes time, even things like these, lucky are those who take one guess and hit it correctly, and there is a 50/50 chance that you are right, like or not like, so why not take the positive answer?
Truth be told, signs are relative, it would be easier if you have been with the person for a lot of time now. The oldest trick in the book is asking. Instead of juggling around, if you are dying to know the answer, then ask, who said that it was a sin to ask a person if he/she likes you? Nobody. Instead of wasting your time, googling the answers, asking the gods to give you that sign, go ahead and ask. If it’s too forward then ask her out, if it’s a him, then it is a different gameplay. If he likes you, or interested he would have probably asked you out, or if he is the shy type, he would have probably given you the slightest idea. The difference is, guys are only hard to interpret when they are already going out with you, very easy if they are on the process of wanting or planning to go out with you.
Pay attention to details, if he doesn’t ask you out, then he is not interested. If he is going out with you and becomes too confusing, just ask, same for the guys. Don’t make it too complicated, because dealing with men and women is already a complicated thing.